wondering if he’s still the one?

I support women who are on the fence about their marriage to gain the healing and clarity they need to determine whether the relationship is worth saving.

If you’re experiencing any of these, you’re in the right place.

• Feeling like your needs are rarely (or never) getting met

• Being unsure of whether you still love your partner

• Wondering whether it’s you or him that’s the problem

• Huge disparity in desire or Love Language

• Repeatedly requesting change in the relationship but nothing has improved

• Wanting to leave but being afraid of being the bad guy

Here’s what you can expect:

• The ability to quickly overcome emotional triggers and traumas, so you can see clearly, without emotion clouding everything

• Tools to release the beliefs that harm you and your relationships

• An innovative process that uncovers and resolves your core wounds so you finally feel fulfilled regardless of externals

• An experienced, judgment-free, supportive guide to lead you through your process

So many of my clients are women who reach out, unsure of whether they’re with the right person. More than anything, they want clarity on whether their relationship issues are related to their own triggers and traumas, or if it's something in their partner that may never improve.

Sometimes relationships are saved just by healing old wounds. My own marriage is a prime example of that.

But most of these women have, deep down, already made up their minds by the time they come to me. They've asked their husbands for change, or to go to couples counseling. They've read all the books and listen to all the podcast. They’ve felt rejected and ignored so often that they're already done.

The biggest block for most women is the hesitation to hurt someone, or the fear of being the bad guy, (a.k.a. being “selfish” - the horror!) by ending things without trying every possible option first.

My goal is never to save or destroy a marriage, but to help you heal any wounds that the relationship has created, as well as any triggers that are being unveiled by the relationship, so that you can get crystal clear on whether the relationship is a good fit for you or not.

My real job is helping you smoothly deal with the emotional fallout that comes with trying to save, or to end, a relationship.

Oh and if you’re in a same-sex relationship (like me!), you’re welcome here as well. Love is love. Same with relationships that haven’t reached the marriage stage yet. All pain is valid and deserves healing.

What my clients are saying